Ostrander v McCain
2009 NY Slip Op 09571 [68 AD3d 1480]
December 24, 2009
Appellate Division, Third Department
As corrected through Wednesday, February 10, 2010


Jason T. Ostrander, Appellant,
v
Tracy C. McCain,Respondent. (And Another Related Proceeding.)

[*1]Jehed Diamond, Delhi, for appellant.

Andrew M. Dunn, Oneida, for respondent.

Bridget A. O'Connor, Law Guardian, Binghamton.

Peters, J.P. Appeal from an order of the Family Court of Broome County (Charnetsky, J.),entered January 21, 2009, which, among other things, granted respondent's application, in twoproceedings pursuant to Family Ct Act article 6, for custody of the parties' child.

Petitioner (hereinafter the father) and respondent (hereinafter the mother), who nevermarried, are the parents of a son (born in 2005). They lived together from 2000 until January2007, when the mother left the father for a high school senior. Thereafter, their son resided withthe mother and had visitation with the father at least every other weekend and on Wednesdayevenings. This informal arrangement continued until early 2008, when the father, upon learningthat the mother intended to move with the child approximately 178 miles away to the Village ofFairport, Monroe County, filed a petition seeking joint custody of the child. Unbeknownst to thefather, the mother had already relocated to Fairport with the child, yet continued to meet thefather at her former apartment to exchange the child for visitation. Following the initial courtappearance, at which time the father first learned that the mother had already moved, atemporary order was issued awarding the parties joint custody with physical custody of the childalternating on a weekly basis. Shortly thereafter, the father filed an amended petition seekingprimary [*2]physical custody of the child and the motherpetitioned for custody and permission to relocate.

Following a fact-finding hearing, Family Court granted the parties joint legal custody,awarded physical custody of the child to the mother, and permitted the mother to relocate withthe child to Fairport. The court also awarded the father nine consecutive days of visitation eachmonth and such additional time as the parties may agree, with the requirement that the partiesexchange the child in the City of Syracuse, Onondaga County. This appeal by the father ensued.

We first note that, there having been no prior award of custody, strict application of thefactors set forth in Matter of Tropea v Tropea (87 NY2d 727 [1996]) is not required(see Malcolm v Jurow-Malcolm, 63 AD3d 1254, 1255 [2009]; Furman vFurman, 298 AD2d 627, 628-629 [2002], lv dismissed and denied 99 NY2d 575[2003]). However, "a parent's 'decision to reside in a distant locale [is] "a very important factor"among the constellation of factors [to be] considered in arriving at [a] best interestsdetermination, [particularly where] there [is] evidence that it would detrimentally affect' theother parent's relationship with the child[ ]" and the child's relationship with his or her extendedfamily (Matter of Streid v Streid, 46 AD3d 1155, 1156 [2007], quoting Matter ofSiler v Siler, 293 AD2d 826, 828 [2002], appeal dismissed 98 NY2d 691 [2002];see Furman v Furman, 298 AD2d at 629-630; Osborne v Osborne, 266 AD2d765, 767-768 [1999]). Here, the father does not challenge Family Court's decision to awardphysical custody of the child to the mother. Rather, he argues only that it is not in the child's bestinterests to permit the mother to relocate with the child to Fairport, a position also advanced bythe Law Guardian both at the hearing and on appeal. Upon our review of the record, we agree.

The evidence adduced at the hearing clearly demonstrates that an award of physical custodyto the mother in Fairport will significantly impact the child's access to and ability to foster ameaningful relationship with his father and extended family. As Family Court found, the fatherhas always been very active in the child's upbringing, both while the parties resided together andfollowing the dissolution of their relationship. The father enjoyed extensive parenting time withthe child under the parties' informal arrangement and pursuant to the temporary order of custody.Although he also regularly exercised periods of visitation beyond those agreed upon by theparties, such liberal visitation is not now practical due to the distance between the parties.Furthermore, most of the child's extended family (all of the father's and much of the mother's)reside in Broome County, including grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins, with whom thechild has regular contact. Only the mother's father, stepmother and brother reside in the Fairportarea. Notably, even as early as the fact-finding hearing, the three-hour car ride was proving to bevery burdensome on the child. In addition, since the father lacks a reliable vehicle and themother does not own a car, the ability to facilitate regular and meaningful visitation with thefather is bound to be fraught with difficulties.

Moreover, although Family Court—recognizing the extensive visitation that the fatherhas enjoyed and the distance between the parties—provided the father with nineconsecutive days of visitation each month, this schedule will almost certainly interfere with theability to place the child in a preschool program, which both parties expressed a desire to do thisyear. More importantly, such visitation schedule will not be feasible when the child enterselementary school next year, and will thus serve to further deprive the father of meaningfulaccess to his son. When asked how visitation would work after the child begins kindergarten, themother stated that she "really ha[s]n't thought about it that far in advance." Indeed, it is apparentthat the mother has given little thought to the effect of the move on the child.[*3]

Nor would the mother's move enhance the child's life"economically, emotionally [or] educationally" (Furman v Furman, 298 AD2d at 629[citation omitted]; accord Matter of Streid v Streid, 46 AD3d at 1157; compareMalcolm v Jurow-Malcolm, 63 AD3d at 1257). Although there were vague references to thebetter quality of life and increased opportunities in Monroe County, the mother's assertions inthis regard were either unsubstantiated or contradicted by her own testimony. She remainedemployed by the same employer and earned the same hourly wage as she had while living inBroome County. While the mother's primary reason for moving was that she could live rent-freein Fairport in a three-bedroom home owned by her stepmother, we fail to find any real stabilityin this living arrangement. The mother is not named on the deed, does not have a written lease,and agreed that she has been given no assurances that she will be able to reside thereindefinitely.[FN*]In our view, this single immediate benefit of the relocation is heavily outweighed by thedetrimental effects that such move will have on the child (see Matter of Storch v Storch,282 AD2d 845, 847 [2001], lv denied 96 NY2d 718 [2001]; Matter of Roseboom vCarreras, 254 AD2d 548, 550 [1998]).

Under the totality of the circumstances herein, we find that Family Court's decision that thechild's best interests will be served by permitting the mother to relocate to Fairport lacks a soundand substantial basis in the record. Inasmuch as our authority in custody matters is as broad asthat of Family Court (see Matter of Louise E.S. v W. Stephen S., 64 NY2d 946, 947[1985]; Matter of Welch v Welch, 39 AD3d 910, 910 [2007], lv dismissed 9NY3d 988 [2007]), we conclude that it is in the best interests of the child to award physicalcustody to the mother upon the condition that she move within a 50-mile radius of the Village ofEndicott, Broome County, where the father resides (see e.g. Matter of Streid v Streid, 46AD3d at 1157; Furman v Furman, 298 AD2d at 630; Matter of Siler v Siler, 293AD2d at 828).

Lahtinen, Malone Jr., Kavanagh and Stein, JJ., concur. Ordered that the order is modified, onthe facts, without costs, by reversing so much thereof as allowed respondent to relocate with thechild to the Village of Fairport, Monroe County; petition dismissed to that extent, respondent isawarded primary physical custody of the child conditioned upon her relocating her residence towithin 50 miles of the Village of Endicott, Broome County, and matter remitted to the FamilyCourt of Broome County for further proceedings not inconsistent with this Court's decision; and,as so modified, affirmed.

Footnotes


Footnote *: Indeed, the motheracknowledged that her stepmother could at any time and for any reason require her to leave.


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